I WOKE UP SLEEPING NXT TO SOMEBODY!

what a feeling!!!!yhoooo its been a long time! There is nothing I enjoy more than that early or middle of the night nookie!
Who is feeling me Gals???????

Not really Vamo, but i vividly know what you talking about. I am still off My son is 6mths and I still haven't gotten my groove back. Can you believe it. DH understands thought.

Shame Cece...but you'll come right I know! Mina its not a matter or 'understanding' hubby is ALWAYS away on assignments and I have been deprived ***don't tell, but it was the first time since Lwandle (turning 7 mnths nxt wk) was born***. We were "told" to wait 6 months EISHHHHH

Haibo 6 months? I waited 6 weeks

BLK....kunjalo nje sisi but considering this morning's perfomance ans satisfaction...I can gladly say it was worth the wait and Lwandle did not evn disturb! I'm loving both my men so much right now!

Eish ya 6 mths is kanda long. But mmmmm our elders and their anceint rules. Docs normally advice to wait for 6 wks. I just imagine being set down and all the gogos telling to stay away from hubby for 6 mnths , some even advice to sleep in a separate rooms to avoid temptation

separate rooms is not ok, I believe that even thoug you are not really active but there are other things you can do as a couple like cuddling and kissing, just feeling each other's warth is assuring enough!
In my case the fact that DH was not around help me to 'obey' them but if he was around .. 3 mnths was all I was going to wait

I know da feeling gal. I dnt stay with my man n today I woke up next 2 him n Igot it all. Mhn I ws even l8 @ work

shooo ladies 6 months??hai mina I was told 6 weeks,we didn't even last for 4 weeks. I just couldnt' handle it...well I sleep and wake up with it everyday,lol

Mama L&B, there i thought i was bad.... 6 months. Sleeping in the same bed for 6 months and not doing it. I'll go crazy! Ngiyazithandela lento shame mina

I agree 6 mnths in a same bed is just not possible. Anyone can go cracy blkpearl. Mama L&B you couldnt last 4wks , so many addicts

Well I was told 3 months bt I gave up in the middle of da 3rd month. I think its just 2 make sure u heal n if u get pregnant ur kid are nt born in da same yr.

So Cece, you telling me you and your man are currently not sharing a bed? I would think even if you're dont share a bed, but seeing each other could just heat up things. you know!!!!!!! unless you guys dont stay in the same house or province for that matter...

We do share a bed and we have done it a couple of time , coz we stay together full time. But I did it for HIM than for myself, coz i wouldnt want him to look elsewhere. My groove is still gone therefore my body does not respond well. I can never follow this ancient rules hence u are told about them once a baby is born

Eishhh Cece I know what you mean, its said that we as women sometimes (if not all the time) have to do things to "keep the peace" in our homes!

Lol, my MIL told us to wait 6 months as well, hubby went asking all the zulus he could find in Cape town, and then he said to me, no bathi uma wasnt right lol, first time he decided to disagree with her

Cece girl I don't know how you do it...but mina everytime I see DH, I just get weak on my knees...Gosh I tell you the man does it for me,after 6 years with him,I still ask myself asking for more....

Mama L&B - ur kids r cute. I think I want another one, am I crazy?

hehehe they are cute and very naughty,they are always fighting and eish it's especially Bokamoso,he's always beating up his older brother...I must say your sons chicks just make me wanna smoooch him...he is soo adorable